LET ME GUESS
You're tired of...
Trying to “fix” relationships by yourself, thinking if YOU just changed, then your partner would too.
Reading relationship self-help books that sound great, but don’t seem to translate into giving you the tools you want to improve what was going on.
Trying couples counseling with new and different therapists when all it does is stir up all of your negative feelings and give you no clear action plan.
Having the same kind of relationship your parents had, even though you told yourself you wouldn’t.
Dating the same kind of people over and over again even though you think “this” time you’ll choose better.
And maybe you believe these too?
You believe you’re the problem in your relationship.
A relationship can only be as healthy as its least healthy member!
You believe this is just how relationships “are.”
Just because you didn’t have healthy relationship role models doesn’t mean you can’t have one yourself!
You believe your relationship is doomed.
ANY relationship can improve with new stills and tools to help you get there!
If you and your partner need help, it must be because you’re not meant to be together.
It doesn’t matter if you are with your soulmate if you keep practicing unhealthy relating skills. Even the “best” of relationships can benefit from help!
You believe your problems cannot be fixed.
70% of relationship problems can’t be fixed, BUT they can be navigated in a way that’s healthy. That still means too that 30% of your problems CAN be fixed.
Relationships should be easy and effortless.
Healthy relating skills can take time to learn and implement. A relationship seeming "easy" doesn't necessarily mean it's healthy!
But you CAN have a healthy and happy relationship where...
You are able to fight in a healthy and productive way with your partner.
You communicate deeply and intimately.
You feel “known” by your partner.
You set and enforce boundaries around unacceptable behaviors and dealbreakers.
You resolve and/or learn to better navigate perpetual/unsolvable problems.
I'M PROOF THERE'S HOPE...
Every relationship I was in was incredibly toxic...until my current one.
Not only was I choosing inappropriate people, but I also had no healthy relationship skills myself. When I finally started my own self-healing journey, I found the tools necessary to build the healthy relationship I’m in today with my sweet husband.
Along with my Master’s degree from the University of Memphis, I also have coaching certifications from Transformation Academy and other courses fully accredited by Complementary Therapists Accredited Association (CTAA).
with Tara Blair Ball