30 Books You Can Use for Any Relationship Issue
Recommendations from a Relationship Coach

None of these are perfect and some I don’t even totally agree with, but I recommend them here because I believe there’s enough good to outweigh the bad.
Think of approaching these books with a “I’ll take what I like and leave the rest” mindset.
These are affiliate links. If you buy them from Amazon, I make a small amount of money at no extra cost to you.
Dating (women)
Getting the Love You Want by Harville Hendrix
Dating (men)
(warning: shameless plug) Stop Wasting Your Time on Women Who Don’t Want You by me
Models: Attract Women Through Honesty by Mark Manson
Getting the Love You Want by Harville Hendrix
Sex
Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski
Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by Esther Perel
She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian Kerner
Better Relationships/Marriages
The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman
The Seven Principles That Make Marriage Work by Dr. John Gottman
Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
The Happiness Equation: Want Nothing + Do Anything = Have Everythingby Neil Pasricha
Parenting & Your Long-Term Relationship
All Joy and No Fun: The Paradox of Modern Parenthood by Jennifer Senior
When Partners Become Parents: The Big Life Change for Couples by Carolyn Pape Cowan
The Second Shift: Working Families and the Revolution at Home by Arlie Hochschild and Anne Machung
Going Through a Tough Time
Hold Me Tight by Dr. Sue Johnson
Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself by Melody Beattie
Cheating
Infidelity: Why Men and Women Cheat by Dr. Kenneth Paul Rosenberg
The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity by Esther Perel
Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life: The Chump Lady’s Survival Guide by Tracy Schorn
When You’re The One Who Cheats: Ten Things You Need To Know by Tammy Nelson
Break-Up/Divorce
Want to have a better relationship today? Click here to sign up for my FREE “Be a Match for Your Dream Relationship” Worksheet!